About Life and Commitments

The most important commitments we make in our lives are not like in the movies, about making huge and overwhelming life decisions. No hair pulling desperately to find out what to do, as if the great existential dilemma was in front of around us. Not so.
The major commitments in our lives happen when we are usually too busy to pay attention: …… we do not even mind that we noticed we were rude. We did not realize that we have become habit to avoid, to minimize , being selfish , gossips, speaking evil of others , talking only of oneself, being late , forgetting the thanks or just saying I love you.
Our integrity is compromised and becomes contaminated, not because of the big tough decisions, but by those small acts that we did not realize was compromising our character and probably created a character that ended up being, which never wanted to be.
Of course, they must have been great choices in our lives, but they are easy to identify and resolve.
The hardest work is to identify in our lives, every day, which we are. In whom we are developing for our real actions and not by our intentions. In learning to let go of those moments when we act like idiots, charlatans, bullies or children. In learning to let go of all that, and decide to live a more conscious , more loving, kind , faithful and bold , centered more different life. The power to say no more waste of energies on a fictional character. What I am I have created on purpose, with joy, with love, day by day, moment by moment.
I have lived, we might say, by choice and not by chance, touching fire with my hands.
So, I propose the following: let’s get free of old stories and excuses and go out to build our own ideals. That if: slowly, day by day, moment by moment.

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Author: Carlitos Way BLOG

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